I deeply love the following Zen Experience by Chuang-Tse:
“I dreamed I was a butterfly, flitting around in the sky; then I awoke. Now I wonder: Am I a man who dreamt of being a butterfly, or am I a butterfly dreaming that I am a man?”
Perhaps the solution is:
“You will always find an answer in the sound of water''.
Ps - Have a great weekend...